We are starting a series of Personal Branding. It sounds like product branding, Let's start mixed sugar into a glass of water and add fizz to it. Fill a can from it the price of the can is less than 0.1$. But label the sticker of coca cola on this can, then the price of this can is 1.02$. The same case is with the human being. If they have a development person and have the skills to improve their thoughts & lifestyle, then the value of a person is increase as compare to the unskill person.
That's why a personality development is important to prove yourself in front of the world.
There are 12 important life skills, most successful people have these skills. The king skill all of these 12 skills is communication skill. I will discuss those points and method which you adopt then, it will automatically increase your communication skills. But for that, you also start thinking about what I am asking from you.
There are two basic type of communication: Verbal🗣 and Non-Verbal 👥
⭐The verbal communication means talking to someone on a voice phone call just like a radio jockey, who is talking on a microphone and communicate with all the country in the same time and entertain the public with his voice. People can't see what they wear or do during the live radio show. We just listen to their voice and communicate with them through messages and calls.
⭐The Non-Verbal communication is the type of communication in which a person communicate and talk with us by the visual image. Likewise talking to someone in a new place or giving a presentation on a topic or introduce your self in a public place.
Do You Know?
How much percentage of verbal and non-verbal communication from 100%
7 % is Verbal Communication
93% is Non-Verbal Communication
We are afraid to talk to someone or not easily adjust to a new place because the first thing is in our mind ''We can't talk and we don't know where should I start blah blah...''. But only 7% is dependent on our voice.
Important Components of Communication Skills:
1) Body Language:
When I give a small session on Resume/CV writing to my batch fellow in a conference hall, one of my friend(Nimra) recorded the whole session and send it to me. When I have watched my video recording, kept my hands on my eyes(I am looking so, nervous and confused). Instead, the audience can't see my lack of confidence, but they give me a positive response. On that day I realized no one judge us better than we can. from that day up till now I practice a lot in front of the mirror and record my video then watched it and try to improve my self.
In body language your gesture, smile, eye contact, and focus involved. For a communicator his smile is a small matchbox, to start the bomb of conversation. Keep a smile on your face, whenever you meet with someone the first time. Always learn the good habit to keep your gesture normal in a new place. Whenever you prepare the presentation, session, group discussion or a meeting open your mobile camera and record your motion then watched it and observe in which part you do improve yourself. Which muscles are more active on our face? (Answer it in the comment box)
That's why Allah gives us two ears and one tongue to listen more and talk less.
2 ) Understanding:
For a long-term relationship whether it's with your partner, boss, teacher, a new friend, and client you must understand them. At the beginning of any conversation, you should know the Respected Manner of any conversation. When you agree with them then they realize you understand them and both of you start in a deep conversation. The main problem in our society, we can't agree with anyone because we feel insulted by them. We were guided by our parents and teachers to take part in a successful race and win the race, but they don't guide us how we become happy or how we live such a peaceful and satisfactory life. The person who understand others situation and respectfully want to know others problems, people like them and want to communicate with him/her.
3 ) Ask Questioning:
When we agree with other person or party then there is no means of arguing. When you understand them and agree with them then start question from them. Well, here I share my past experience when I work with a transportation company. One day a customer comes to the office and sit with our incharge, he starts complaining about the service. The incharge of the office is kept calm and with the great patience, he listens to the customer complaints. A single word the office incharge is said to the customer '' Sir, I agree with you''. The customer passed a smile to him and feel relaxed. Incharge said ''But, sir would you explain me your opinion about these complaints in details, and what aspects you want to improve''. After that, they start a detail conversation and et the end the customer leave the office with a very peaceful feel smile on his face. That day I realize how we tackle every single moment of life.
4 ) Avoid Argue:
You might be seen many people who are ready to argue with you on any topic, because of not they like to argue but because they want to tell their life stories. Most people argument started at the time when they come up with a point at that both have different stories to explain their thoughts.
If you have a habit to argue with your friends or class-fellows then you are not a good communicator.
People run away from these kinds of people or maybe someone listens to you for the sake of some informative discussion but when you tell them your stories and not sum up with an interesting moral, Then people don't want to listen or conversate with you again.
A person said '' Something Has To Be Lost To Get Something''.
Be careful, next time how to catch a person with your effective conversation and make them happy to talk to you.
Stay connected and stay tuned for more informative articles.
That's why a personality development is important to prove yourself in front of the world.
There are 12 important life skills, most successful people have these skills. The king skill all of these 12 skills is communication skill. I will discuss those points and method which you adopt then, it will automatically increase your communication skills. But for that, you also start thinking about what I am asking from you.
There are two basic type of communication: Verbal🗣 and Non-Verbal 👥
⭐The verbal communication means talking to someone on a voice phone call just like a radio jockey, who is talking on a microphone and communicate with all the country in the same time and entertain the public with his voice. People can't see what they wear or do during the live radio show. We just listen to their voice and communicate with them through messages and calls.
⭐The Non-Verbal communication is the type of communication in which a person communicate and talk with us by the visual image. Likewise talking to someone in a new place or giving a presentation on a topic or introduce your self in a public place.
Do You Know?
How much percentage of verbal and non-verbal communication from 100%
7 % is Verbal Communication
93% is Non-Verbal Communication
We are afraid to talk to someone or not easily adjust to a new place because the first thing is in our mind ''We can't talk and we don't know where should I start blah blah...''. But only 7% is dependent on our voice.
Important Components of Communication Skills:
1) Body Language:
When I give a small session on Resume/CV writing to my batch fellow in a conference hall, one of my friend(Nimra) recorded the whole session and send it to me. When I have watched my video recording, kept my hands on my eyes(I am looking so, nervous and confused). Instead, the audience can't see my lack of confidence, but they give me a positive response. On that day I realized no one judge us better than we can. from that day up till now I practice a lot in front of the mirror and record my video then watched it and try to improve my self.
In body language your gesture, smile, eye contact, and focus involved. For a communicator his smile is a small matchbox, to start the bomb of conversation. Keep a smile on your face, whenever you meet with someone the first time. Always learn the good habit to keep your gesture normal in a new place. Whenever you prepare the presentation, session, group discussion or a meeting open your mobile camera and record your motion then watched it and observe in which part you do improve yourself. Which muscles are more active on our face? (Answer it in the comment box)
That's why Allah gives us two ears and one tongue to listen more and talk less.
2 ) Understanding:
For a long-term relationship whether it's with your partner, boss, teacher, a new friend, and client you must understand them. At the beginning of any conversation, you should know the Respected Manner of any conversation. When you agree with them then they realize you understand them and both of you start in a deep conversation. The main problem in our society, we can't agree with anyone because we feel insulted by them. We were guided by our parents and teachers to take part in a successful race and win the race, but they don't guide us how we become happy or how we live such a peaceful and satisfactory life. The person who understand others situation and respectfully want to know others problems, people like them and want to communicate with him/her.
3 ) Ask Questioning:
When we agree with other person or party then there is no means of arguing. When you understand them and agree with them then start question from them. Well, here I share my past experience when I work with a transportation company. One day a customer comes to the office and sit with our incharge, he starts complaining about the service. The incharge of the office is kept calm and with the great patience, he listens to the customer complaints. A single word the office incharge is said to the customer '' Sir, I agree with you''. The customer passed a smile to him and feel relaxed. Incharge said ''But, sir would you explain me your opinion about these complaints in details, and what aspects you want to improve''. After that, they start a detail conversation and et the end the customer leave the office with a very peaceful feel smile on his face. That day I realize how we tackle every single moment of life.
4 ) Avoid Argue:
You might be seen many people who are ready to argue with you on any topic, because of not they like to argue but because they want to tell their life stories. Most people argument started at the time when they come up with a point at that both have different stories to explain their thoughts.
If you have a habit to argue with your friends or class-fellows then you are not a good communicator.
People run away from these kinds of people or maybe someone listens to you for the sake of some informative discussion but when you tell them your stories and not sum up with an interesting moral, Then people don't want to listen or conversate with you again.
A person said '' Something Has To Be Lost To Get Something''.
Be careful, next time how to catch a person with your effective conversation and make them happy to talk to you.
Stay connected and stay tuned for more informative articles.
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